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Bondage Sex Toys Every Couple Must Have

Okay, you’ve made the decision to go down the bondage route and both of you are deadly serious about it. If that’s the case then the chances are that you have already tried more run-of-the-mill ‘toys’ such as blindfolds and masks etc. and you are now ready to take the next step. But there are a huge number of bondage sex toys available at the moment, so how do you know where to start with something a little different?

It’s always a good idea to learn from people who have already experienced what you are going through at the moment and it might pay you to take their advice. After all, they will have tried and tested favorites and will be able to tell you what kinda things are worth trying. If you are too shy or embarrassed to talk about things with other people then spend some time together going through some of the various bondage websites which will help you to discover what kind of bondage sex toys other couples play with.

There are a few what I would term as ‘must-haves’, one of which is a ball gag. This is a ball, generally made from rubber, which is placed into the mouth and secured around the head, usually with adjustable straps. Using one of these means that you will be in control of whether your partner is allowed to speak or not and only you can decide when!

Another great bondage toy is to have some nipple clamps hidden away in your toy box. These are available in a range of sizes and weights and are designed to grip the nipples in such a way that all sensation to this is heightened. The more gentle ones are a toy generally used at the start of a bondage relationship and most couples go on to try something which has a bit more of a weighty feel to them as things progress.

Another must-have toy for a bondage relationship is to have one (or preferably more,) whips and paddles. These can range in shape, size and weight and are far more satisfying to use than the palm of your hand. It is possible to improvise to start with by using a Ping Pong paddle, but as time goes on you will discover that you need more choice. Another possibility at the start is to use the back of a hairbrush, or even a spatula.

One of the most popular whips to use is what is known as a ‘cat-o’-nine-tails’, which is a long thin collection of material, (generally leather) attached to a handle. The beauty of this kind of whip is that the feeling engendered when using it can be varied every time down to the amount of pressure used by the Dom in the relationship. It is also possible to use it not only as a whip, but also to gently trail the fronds between your lover’s butt cheeks before using the handle in (ahem!) more interesting ways!