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How Female Masturbation Can Improve Your Sex Life

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There are still a lot of preconceptions and wrong ideas about female masturbation, including the long-held belief that it is wrong in some way. Well I am here to put your mind at rest because it is a proven fact that women who masturbate tend to be more comfortable with their own bodies and discovering what pleases them, than someone who does not masturbate. And if you know what turns you on, you are then able to pass this valuable information onto your partner so they can also help you to achieve orgasm.

Because of the fact that many people still seem to view pleasuring yourself as being ‘something which nice girls don’t do,’ many women will not admit to it. And there are still women out there who are too shy to try it. So if you are one of those, here’s one way you can begin to discover how delightful ‘flying solo’ can be! And before you actually begin your self-exploration, think about this: women who masturbate tend to have higher self-esteem, a raised self-image and better sex lives.

It is also true to say that when women are having problems getting intimate with their partner that most sex therapists would advise a long period of masturbation and self-exploration. So I’m telling you it’s okay; a sex therapist would agree, and you want to have a good time, don’t you? So let’s begin.

You need to be relaxed, and so the best place to start female masturbation is in a nice hot bubble bath when you are certain that you are not going to be disturbed. Close your eyes and think about how good it feels to have the hot water swirling around your body. Open your legs and allow the water to reach your intimate places. Squirt some conditioning body wash onto your hands and then caress your breasts, paying particular attention to your nipples.

Allow your legs to fall open naturally and imagine one of the horniest things you can think of.  (This will be different for everyone so whatever works for you, go with it.) Stroke up the insides of your thighs and allow one hand to part your outer vaginal lips. Use a mirror if you like so that you can see exactly what your lover would be seeing while you masturbate. Use your middle finger to gently circle around your clitoris and find out which kind of pressure works for you: some women prefer firmer strokes and some like it gentle. This is the whole point of female masturbation; you can discover exactly what works for you. (Apart from anything else, it feels damn good too!)

Try dipping a finger inside your vaginal canal and you should be pretty well lubricated by then. You will be able to feel how slippery and wet you are becoming in readiness for penetration. Spread some of this lubrication back up to your clitoris and continue rubbing it in whichever way suits you. Most women find that an orgasm through masturbation will occur then with not very much effort because they are feeling so relaxed and tuned in with their own body.

All that remains now is for you to pass this valuable information onto your partner; go ahead and enjoy some masturbation today!