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How to Become a MILF

becoming a milf

It’s true; I don’t feel incredibly sexy any longer, though when I think to back in the day, I had the tight ass, nice, perky tits, and just an overall body that would knock men off their feet.  I had that face to match; at least most men felt I did.  Now, being married, having a family, I look and wonder what happened?  Many moms feel this way; but secretly, deep down, we all really want to be known as that MILF.  It makes us feel youthful, and worthy to walk next to the younger girls at the club, rubbing elbows, or whatever else we want to do.  It all comes down to wanting to feel wanted by our men.  As much as they tell us we are desirable, we are sexy, we just don’t feel it, do we ladies?  

Turn Yourself On

There are ways to beat these blues, and believe me, I’ve ventured on this path many times.  Arousing your body, and making yourself cum can sometimes be the cure all to beat those depressing mood swings we mom’s sometimes suffer with.  Don’t stand in the full length mirror and examine every little pucker or stretchmark.  Don’t try to perk your tits up, just love them the way they are.  Age is inevitable, but approaching it in a positive light can keep you sexy and alluring to your significant other; and even more so to other males, especially if you’re into the swinging lifestyle.  

So, don’t be afraid to finger yourself and feel the rapture.  Don’t be embarrassed of any little bumps or rolls you might have.  You are a woman, you are in control, and you are in control of how you feel about yourself.  Believe me, your partner will pick up on your new attitude when you start loving yourself the way that you should.  

You can even turn yourself on in front of him, or multiple partners.  Men love it.  Most certainly they aren’t thinking anything negative when your hands are moving along your body in a way that says: “Come and get me if you can.”  If you imagine yourself to be a beautiful, sultry mom, then others will too.  If you have come into harmony with how your body works, and you can get your own self off, believe me, yet again, that confidence will shine through.  You really will glow!  Practice it and just see for yourself.

Becoming that MILF

It really doesn’t matter how many children you’ve had, or how old you really are; after all, age really is just a number, isn’t it?  Take good care of yourself, and pay attention to your appearance.  These are two important aspects that you should never let lapse.  If you work hard to feel good and look good, then you can become that MILF next door, or down the street.  Your kids might appear to be embarrassed, but secretly, they will become confident themselves, because they will see that you are.  Remember, we moms are role models too, so we don’t have to dress skanky, or act whorish to be sexy and feel good.  It all will come naturally if you take the time to take the necessary steps to get yourself in check.  

Men need to understand that it isn’t enough to hear them say we are exciting; we have to feel it too.  If we don’t feel it then everything in our relationship can suffer.  So, what might be the first steps to feeling like a sexy mom?  

  • Become More Active:  An active lifestyle can help you lose the baby bulge and get fit, gaining your confidence back and making you feel more like a desirable woman.  You have to make the time for it no matter what.
  • Enjoy Sex:  Yes, I am serious here.  Move your body in vividly enhancing ways.  Grind on him, ride him until the dawn.  Show him that you love your body and feel good about it.  You can’t help but feel sexy.
  • Talk about Swinging: You don’t necessarily have to do it, but bring up the idea and play around with his reaction.  He might be hip to the idea of some soft swapping, meaning you don’t have penetration but you both can have threesomes and excite one another like you used to, if that is one of the issues going on.
  • Have Sex Outside:  This is one for the record books, and that chill against your skin as you have your man love you down will make you feel more than sexy and desirable.  Just lose yourself in the emotions and the feelings he is provoking in your body.  If you let go and release your inhibitions, you will see that nothing has changed!

You can feel as attractive as you want to be, and sexy, well, there is no doubt that however you present yourself, the sexiness will indeed follow.  MILF might be right around the corner for you and you didn’t even know it.  The bottom line ladies is to not let motherhood become a dooming experience.  There are plenty of sexy moms out here, and who says you can’t be the next one?