While they may say that size matters, to most women it would be true to say that it’s what he does with it that counts. I’m sure that we have all been in the position of thinking ‘is that it?’ when we see a rather small erection, but as long as he is a skilled lover we don’t really mind. But what happens if he has a big erection? Big enough to make you think it’s going to hurt?
The first thing you need is quality communication between you. Tell him you are afraid that he is going to hurt you with his large erection and between the two of you, you will be able to come up with a plan whereby you take it slow and steady to make sure that you are going to be okay.
Some women may be scared by the prospect of being able to ‘fit’ a big erection inside them. But as long as there is no rush in your love-making, there is absolutely no reason why you should not be able to take the biggest erection. Foreplay is the key. No-one is going to be able to fit a big erection if they are not well-lubricated. So you just need to make sure you both take your time. If you think that lubrication may be an issue, there’s no reason why you shouldn’t apply some. Most guys would be really turned on by the sight of a woman rubbing something into her pussy.
Let him watch, or better still, be a part of it. Don’t be afraid to say to him that he has such a big erection that you think you might need a little help. It will be a huge boost to his ego anyway. Keep your tube of lube close by and hand it to him. Tell him that you want to be wet enough to really enjoy his large erection, and then lay back and enjoy it when he slathers it all over your pussy to make you ready for him.
One of the reasons that a big erection can hurt is that it will hit the tip of your cervix when he fully enters you. Therefore you need to consider which position will be best for you to make love in. A good position to cope with a big erection is one where you control the level and depth of penetration, such as you on top. In this way, you need only lower yourself down as far as is comfortable for you.
Your technique during oral sex will be equally as important. Some men may not feel fully stimulated when the base of the penis and the scrotum are not being stimulated. But the reality is that many women are not able to perform ‘deep throat’ no matter how big the erection is. In these cases, just use your hands to give him some manual stimulation to the base of the penis and cup his balls at the same time. You will find that he is just as happy with that as you attempting to emulate Linda Lovelace!