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Introducing Double Penetration to the Bedroom

introducing double penetration

The thought of double penetration can be exciting for some and positively scary for others. Where do you fall in the spectrum? Intrigued or frightened? Anal sex can be a highly erotic experience for both men and women, but obviously the subject of double penetration is something which is suited to women, but many may think that it means getting another man involved in the bedroom action. While of course you can if that’s what does the trick for you, the general idea of double penetration, which doesn't involve having sex with someone else is usually achieved with the use of a dildo or vibrator.

You can choose whether you want the dildo to be used anally or vaginally, and for women who have not tried any anal intercourse before, I would suggest that a small, purpose-made anal plug for beginners would be ideal for the first time. Many women find the idea of a penis in the ass as being something which may be a touch too large to tackle to begin with! As with all forms of anal intercourse, a few safety and comfort issues need to be looked at before any back-door action takes place!

The most important consideration is to make sure you have enough time not to rush double penetration, especially the first time you plan on trying it. The anus contains two rings of muscle, otherwise known as sphincters, which are generally used to push something out of the anus, rather than allowing something in. Because of this it is natural for those muscles to tighten up when something is introduced into the anus and this is just one of the reasons for not rushing things.

Lubrication is another hugely important consideration. You can never use too much ‘lube when planning on double penetration. It is essential that the woman feels no pain otherwise she may not want to continue. For beginners to DP (double penetration,) it’s best to start with a well-lubricated finger introduced into the anus, before you try and move on to anything larger. If this goes well and she indicates that she’s ready for more, then you can try with the tip of a small dildo or finger-like vibrator.

If that goes okay, then the best position to try double penetration is to get her to kneel on all fours and then you should kneel behind her, and between her legs. If she is enjoying the dildo, then penetrate her vaginally with your penis, a little at a time. If she wants more, the chances are that she will push back against you and you know that you are good to go a little harder. But as all forms of intercourse, DP will only be successful if she wants you to continue.

To really get things moving in the right direction during double penetration, then use your free hand to stimulate her clitoris/breasts at the same time. This will mean that she is far more likely to enjoy an orgasm and then want to try DP another time. Just take your time and you are both likely to have an enjoyable experience.

There are various sex toys made specifically for double penetration. A cock ring with attached small dildo and vibrating bullet gives you an easy to use, all in one, option. If you are interested in some double penetration solo play, try out a triple stimulation vibrator. This is like a rabbit vibrator, but with the added bonus of an anal vibrator.

As with everything, we always suggest plenty of communication to keep things fun and comfortable for both partners.