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No Strings Sex: Managing the Booty Call

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Sometimes relationships can quite frankly be a pain in the ass. There will always be times when it seems like just too much trouble thinking of someone else’s needs all the time, especially if you are having a stressful time yourself. There will also be times when all you need is physical relief instead of having to worry about the whole ‘where is this leading?’ scenario. And ladies, that is when having a friend with benefits comes into its own. Yes, that is when you can make the booty call!Friends with benefits really can work as long as you are both in the same frame of mind. It’s the perfect solution for two grown-ups who would like to be able to have passionate no-strings sex, without the need for a sometimes messy relationship. When you know someone as well as you know your best friend, making the booty call should never be a problem, as long as you have both agreed to the guidelines.

There should be certain rules you both stick to in order to make the booty call a successful one, so if you adhere to these, no-strings sex is just a booty call away!

  • Don’t make the call too early in the day; a booty call is best made at the end of the day when there are no work worries or anything else to distract from what you both want. Of course, you may stay over and have sex again the following morning, but that is merely an extension of the booty call and not a relationship.
  • Make sure the atmosphere is right. Okay, this is not a date but you should both still be considerate as to the usual things like cleanliness, making sure you offer food/drink if required, and always offer a shower/place to sleep if they need to. And have some sexy lingerie under your clothes to keep your booty call extra interested.
  • Don’t take things for granted. Although this is a no-strings booty call, always remember that the other person still has thoughts and feelings and needs to be treated with respect. In fact, treat them the way you would wish to be treated yourself.
  • Keep your chat fun and light-hearted. The whole point of a booty call is that you are not in a relationship, so don’t start asking them where they were on a certain evening. It’s simple: it’s none of your business.
  • Be prepared for rejection. They ‘owe’ you nothing; you are not in a relationship and they do not have to give reasons why they are not in the mood for a booty call on that particular evening.
  • ALWAYS, always, always use protection. The last thing you need is for your no strings booty call to end up with an unwanted pregnancy or for either of you to contract some kind of infection. It doesn’t matter how well you think you know someone; this is a no-brainer.
Follow these simple rules and there are no reasons why the two of you should not enjoy booty calls for some time to come.

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