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Why Watching Porn Together is Healthy for Your Relationship

watching porn together is healthy for your relationship

There is a widely held belief that watching porn is something which only men do but there is an increasing number of women choosing to also watch porn on a regular basis. After all why not? If it’s good enough for men…

While there are negative beliefs held about porn, there are also a huge number of positives in watching it. But just to allay your fears, let’s put to bed some of the more common misconceptions. It’s not true to say that all the women who appear in these movies are drug addicts who’ve been forced into porn by some shady dealer. Women choose to appear in porn due to the huge sums of money involved and the fact that they like to have sex! Why not get paid for doing something which you enjoy?

Some women also think that their partner will compare them to the sexy goddess on screen and that they won’t measure up in some way. Let me into a little secret with you here…most men wouldn’t recognize cellulite if it jumped up and smacked them in the face! They don’t see stretch marks or a rounded tummy; what they do see is a sexy woman who wants to have sex with them.

They love naked breasts and bottoms so don’t despair if you think that you’re not perfect; neither probably is your partner! And don’t forget that men have their own hang-ups also. They may compare themselves to the guy on screen who seems to be hard for ages without realizing that the movie shoot probably took place over many, many hours with maybe a little blue pill taking center stage!

And if you are a little shy in that direction, then watching porn together gives you the perfect opportunity to discuss trying something new which you may not have the courage to actually ask for. Maybe you’ve always wanted to try anal or 69 but haven’t known how to put it into words. If you watch a porn movie together that contains elements which you would like to try then that’s the perfect time to make your request.

Your partner won’t be shocked if you whisper in his ear that you would like to try whatever they’re currently doing on the screen and you have the added bonus that you don’t have to have eye contact which can be embarrassing for some. Just keep your eyes on the screen while you tell him what you want to try. Maybe you want to enjoy some light bondage play, or try some role playing in the bedroom. Whatever you desire, this is a great opportunity to share it with your partner.

A lot of women find that their libido can vary during certain times of the month and also after a certain age. If you watch porn together it can bring back a little added excitement which sometimes is all that’s needed to reset those sexual fires. I for one can find that I may not feel in the mood unless I make myself and that can quickly be remedied by putting a porn movie on. Dressing up in some new lingerie can make it an even more exciting experience for both of you. Long gone are the days when porn was difficult to access so just find a genre within porn that suits you and surprise him by putting a movie on for you to watch together.

What should you do if you find out your partner is watching porn without you?